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Don’ts (My gateways to happiness)

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Don’t let anybody tell you how you should live your life.

Don’t argue with anybody / don’t try to convince anybody what the best way to live a life is.

Don’t assume that someone else has all the right answers.

Don’t assume that people who are older than you have life sorted out.

Don’t assume that other people know what the right way to live your life is.

Don’t expect to be understood by everybody.

Don’t expect to understand everything about the world.

Don’t be entitled to being understood by everybody.

Don’t be entitled to understand everything other people do.

Don’t expect to find answers to all your questions.

Don’t assume that everything you know about the world must necessarily be right / the truth.

Don’t expect the world to adjust to your wishes.

Don’t be entitled to a certain outcome.

Don’t try to fit into a certain image of a human being / an adult / a young adult / a child / a parent / a spouse / a partner, or anything.

Don’t let other people’s anxieties and insecurities rub off on you.

Don’t let other people discourage you / tell you or decide for you what is and what isn’t possible.