You can’t choose the right career. You can only move towards the right career for you.

[ 2 min read ] Most young adults, after having received career advice from well-meaning adults, want to figure out their future career in their late teenage years or early 20s. In other words, they try to find the answer to that question they’d been asked so many times, which... Read more →

In the game of appearances, yes they all win, and I’m crazy. But when you consider what’s really going on…

[ 3 min read ] Stop caring (and being occupied with) what all your friends, colleagues, peers, neighbors or family members do in their lives. You never know the whole truth about them and their successes. Sometimes they’re “successes” — they only appear to be successes on the surface, but underneath things... Read more →

Waiting, doing nothing, hoping that, perhaps, one day a sense of direction will magically reveal itself to you is a bad idea.

[ 2 min read ] Young people shouldn’t count on a sense of direction magically revealing itself to them. I think they should start doing anything, even if nobody pays them for it. If they moved back in with their parents, all the more so — they have a roof over their... Read more →